supporting couples on a path of transformation
We welcome and celebrate individuals from diverse life experiences and relational configurations including monogamy, consensual non-mongamy + polyamory, LGBTQIA+, and multi-racial couples
“A good relationship doesn’t mean harmony and peace, but requires awareness, flexibility, and an appreciation of the dreaming process.” - Arnold Mindell
One of the greatest illusions about romantic partnerships in our modern times is this: that our feelings of love for our beloved(s), coupled with the duration of time spent together exclusively, should automatically equate to a lasting connection filled with mutual happiness and fulfilment.
However, in reality, partnerships are in fact a multi-dimensional, complex, mysterious, and ecstatic confluence of worlds (..constantly trying to evolve), that require conscious, consistent, and meaningful participation from all partners in order for the relationship to truly become a vessel for embodied healing, psychospiritual maturation, and a togetherness that is mutually fulfilling.
The trouble with our misguided notions of what a “successful” relationship should look like on the outside, is that we lose touch with the greater intelligence that is hidden inside of ourselves, our partner(s), and what our teacher Francis Weller refers to as the “third body” (or spirit) of our relationship.
From our perspective, the aim of engaging in couples and relationship work is to support you (as a couple) to cultivate the awareness of, and skilfully dance with, the currents of evolution that are showing up within you, your beloved(s), and the wisdom of your partnership's process.
Our Approach To Couple's Psychotherapy
We utilize a process-oriented approach to relationship work that acknowledges the multi-dimensionality of being in intimate partnership(s). This means that the focus may dynamically shift: from one partner’s process, to the other partner’s process, or the focus may hone in on the spirit of the relationship itself and what is potentially being asked of both/all partners involved. In this sense, we support you both to achieve your relationship intentions and guide you to follow the intelligence of what your relationship is asking of you.
“For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation. I hold this to be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other.” - Rainer Maria Rilke
Where We Can Support Your Partnership
“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.”
- Marcel Proust
Working Through Conflict
Growing Awareness as a Couple
Navigating Major Transitions & Crises in Relationship
Engaging in Psychedelic & Plant Medicine Exploration
Exploring Trauma and Power Dynamics in relationships
Exploring Desires & Taboos Around Sexuality & Eroticism
Details of Working Together
As of 2023, we are accepting new couples into our practice. Our sessions are held online via Zoom from our tranquil space in the Sacred Valley of Peru.
Please know that sessions are facilitated by both Alexandre & Alyona.
Prices for Sessions (2023/2024): AUD$220 (i.e AUD$110 each) / USD$150 (i.e USD$75 per person)
Prior to completing your appointment booking via Calendly, please thoroughly read through the information in the calendar which includes details about preparation, terms of service & cancellation agreement, fees & payment instructions, etc.